Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Mommy Mobility Needed


Wolf - WOLF -WOOOOLF! Oh, wait, never mind just thought it could be...

Apparently I was concerned about a possible blood clot last pregnancy and yesterday I did it again – text the husband saying my leg hurts, it may be a blood clot. I've never had one before and have been warned that during pregnancy women are more susceptible. I bruise easily and have poor circulation, so the added pregnancy warning has me on a heightened alert.   Since I do sit a lot at the office, on-site, while flying, driving, and watching TV... I need to monitor any injuries, bruises, and soreness especially in legs and arms. I know it's serious, but I also know being aware will not prevent this, however being active could! So yet another reason I should be getting off my duff and getting moving. So, I started last night with a 2 hour grocery shopping/hotel courtesy van wait (all while standing) as well as a walk to/from the local pharmacy.

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Missing home

I think being home for 6 weeks or so reset my travel tolerance. If you didn't know I travel a lot for work these days. After an overdue job/career change, which was so right for me, I began being one of those on the go business people :) Last year it was about 40% travel and this year it's down to a projected 23% (in part due to my top-notch parental leave benefits). I was able to enjoy the holidays at home and it sure was nice. This week I started traveling again and am trying to remind myself of the benefits, like visiting family in the area, the ability to get more sleep, no household chores, and airline and hotel points. Though I am looking forward to my local family visits I already miss my little girl and my hunky husband! I stayed in my hotel room and pouted all last night. Despite being in my pjs in bed by 7:30pm, I had trouble falling and staying asleep. I'm glad the first night is over, but hope the next 2 weeks get better. The holiday break spoiled me and I know I just have to get used to traveling, hotels, and the routine again. All this said, warm feelings do arise and a smile returns to my face as I think about my growing family. Where ever I am I'm not alone - I have the baby with me! :)

Friday, January 20, 2012

Yep, I'm the duck

Growing up I had many nick names my dad used for me: Ducklips, Lips, DLTW (duck lipped tiny women), Queen, just to name a few. Due to my frequent puckered or extended lips as a child, I've been represented by a duck or a beak on many things like when keeping score during a card game or on gift tags. Now I've realized an additional meaning for my duck image - the way I walk. Yep, I am already waddling!

We're moving and grooving


So, lately I’ve been really hungry for new tunes. After a little prioritizing of my wishlist, I bought full length albums from Black Keys, Cage the Elephant, Dead Weather, Death Cab for Cutie, Electric 6, and Foster the People. I also purchased a few songs through iTunes from artist like Rihanna, Katy Perry, and LMFAO. Plus I was lucky enough to borrow (from my wonderful sister-in-law) a few great CDs - Adele, Mumford and Sons…Hahaha It’s a bit all over the place and I would blame my current rock, dance, blues, pop, electric, funk, etc. music taste on baby brain, but when it comes to music I think I’ve always been eclectic (to say it nicely). Arg, now I have to sort through, remove, add stuff to my iPod. (Sigh) this is so not my favorite part of the process!

So that sums up the grooving, now for the moving - I can feel the baby move!! Over the last few days I began to feel tickles and pokes. At first they were mostly in the lower left side of my abdomen (this is where the heartbeat was found until my last appointment where we found the beat more centered). Nothing can be seen or felt from the outside yet, but I know that's coming. Last time, I had plenty of large baby/belly moves that were seen by others even through my loose shirts or dresses. I got a range of reactions from others: shock, amazement, joy, and disgust just to mention a few. Well, I’m quite excited we are coming along and we’re all (daddy included) healthy. Thanks for letting me share my news J

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

All things Pump


Yeah, I’m so excited – I got my order from Medela. I bought a double pump last time, so all I need is new tubes, valves and things. Until recently, I was unaware that most of the rubber and plastic components expire, so I searched for replacement parts. I had no luck at baby stores, department stores, or online shops. I finally ran across a blog or Q/A on some site that referenced the Medela homepage. Ah, what a concept to get Medela parts for my Medela pump through Medela! Hahaha, I laughed at myself for not trying this sooner. Anyway, they had all the pump things I needed as well as a few other feeding accessories I hadn’t seen anywhere else. So I placed my order and already received my goodies.

Darn car, Darn carseat


My morning routine is growing more challenging by the day. My main trouble is getting G in and out of her car seat. She is now at stage 2 of 4 of my state’s Child Passenger Safety Practices. Her forward-facing seat is in the center of the backseat of my compact car. This is the only position that allows her any kind of leg room. So getting her in and out is a bit tricky; I either hit her or my head (or both) on the ceiling while lifting her in/out. Due to my carpal tunnel I am wearing arm braces from mid palm to mid forearm. These stabilize my wrists. Though they are needed, it has made this car seat task even more difficult. I am short of breath, weak, and have no wrist flexibility. G has showed tremendous patience as I fumble. Now that it’s getting cold and I have less feeling in my hands buckling takes even longer. So this is what I propose: 1) we need to invest in a teleporter and hire a proper technician 2) get a time machine so I can travel the roads before current laws mandated all these contraptions 3) win the lottery and hire a driver/assistant 4) Get a bigger car… hmmm not sure any of my solutions will be happening soon J Well we’ll have to figure something out before the new one arrives!

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

I look so pregnant


Hahaha, I look as pregnant as or bigger than the girl at work that is 6 more weeks along. The doctor is not concerned in the slightest about my early belly and said I should expect to feel and experience many things about a month sooner than before. I guess I just get more wear out of my maternity clothes J

I need a vacation from the weekend…


I went out to lunch on Friday to nice Italian restaurant. Since I continue to have frequent spells of protein aversion I opted for the cheese ravioli with a creamy tomato sauce. For a starter I had a house salad of wintergreens with vinaigrette and a sprinkle of walnuts. There was also warm flatbread with a parsley pesto spread. Ok, I remember this meal because it both tasted wonderful and made me feel terrible. A few hours after returning to work I had to run to the bathroom every 15 to 20 minutes until I decided to just camp out in the bathroom. I called the hubs to pick up G, and warned him that I’d stay at work until I thought I could survive the (1-2 hour) commute home. I finally started to feel a little better and was able to drive myself home around 6 pm.  Did very little that night and went to sleep as soon as I could. The next morning we took G to dance class where we get to see Grammy. This time I missed watching the girls since I couldn’t handle standing for longer than a minute at a time. However, we were able to enjoy a breakfast from Einstein Bagels afterward. Then we headed home where I took a long (maybe 2 or 3 hours) nap. I woke up feeling exhausted and sore. I ate some more and continued to rest. I started to feel better in time for our date. While G spent time at Nana’s, we went downtown for my first live/in-person basketball game. It was so much better in person then on TV. Anyway, because I got to sit almost the entire time and had a cute refreshment delivery boy (husband) I stayed feeling pretty good.  I have to admit I actually enjoyed myself; there was constant entertainment. We headed home at a decent time, but stayed up talking and finally hit the hay around 2 or 3 am. The next morning we slept in. Though we both felt rough, we dragged ourselves out of bed to start the run around. First we picked G up, then we dropped her off at Grand-mama’s, then hit the pharmacy, went to a nice lunch at the Grand Lux where I could only stomach a salad and dessert. Afterward, G got some daddy time while I went grocery shopping for just under 3 hours. Then we dropped off groceries at my mom’s then our house and circled back to Boompa’s and Nana’s to visit. There I fell asleep (no surprise).  We made it home by midnight or so. I went to bed. We had MLKjr day off so we got to sleep in until G woke us up. G and I took it easy while daddy had to work a little. After the doctor we went to lunch where I ate my entire meal, protein and all. G was calm and ate her food with minimal prompting and before we left used another public bathroom. We briefly saw Grammy then stopped by Walgreens to purchase another brace (which G now calls a BIG Band-Aid) for my carpal tunnel before heading home where we started our office cleaning project. (Sigh) I am so very tired.

A family affair…


Yesterday we had a 14 week 1 day baby check with my OBGYN. Since we didn’t have to work (for the most part) we had G with us. G understood that we were headed to the doctor and asked who was sick. After asking her if she felt fine, we explained since everyone was feeling well we just needed the doctor to check on the baby. She thought that that was a good idea. The appointment was brief. After saying that everything looked great and that there are no concerns with the blood work my doctor informed me that my Rubella vaccine was out of date/not registering or whatever. I told her I knew that because I never had one. She was taken back a bit. She told me don’t go off and catch it because it’s really bad for the developing baby. So, now I can officially scratch that off my list – “Get Rubella”. Though I like my doctor she makes some odd phrased comments sometimes. Anyway, the remainder of the appointment was straight forward. We all got to hear the heartbeat! G even later mimicked the shwa-shwa sounds J Before we left the exam room G told the doctor that we need to get the baby out. She instructed me to push-push. The doctor explained that the baby has a lot more growing to do, but when the time comes the hospital staff will know what to do. She seemed satisfied with that. We packed up and started to head out to the car. Just as I was really appreciating how much G is/has grown, she informed daddy that she needed to go potty. There was a pit stop on our way out of the building; we had a successful use of her first public restroom toilet. Wow, she really is my big girl!

G was well behaved and so cute about everything. I’m really glad we got her involved early.

Friday, January 13, 2012

Telling my first about the bun in the oven…


My daughter has been around a few younger children and about 6 months ago started asking to watch babies on TV. I was a little baffled, but looked through the guide to see what my options were. When I came across A Baby Story (I think on TLC) she was satisfied. So we not only watched that episode we recorded and watched more. I later found out she was requesting a DVD she watches at my mom’s place. Can’t remember the name but it shows mothers and young children interacting. I think Sarah Jessica Parker and a few other celebrity parents are featured. Anyway, we ended up really enjoying watching A Baby Story together. It stirred up good questions regarding pregnancy, the birth process, and nursing.  She then started asking for a baby in our home. I told her mommy and daddy want one too and that we’ll see what we can do. So when we became pregnant we told her right away (she was the first to know beyond me and the hubs). She was quite excited too!

Now she explains to me that the baby is in my belly/uterus and is “tiny-tiny but growing”. She instructs me to “push-push” when it’s time for birth. And that the baby will eat from my “boobs because their like bottles”.  She is picking up more and more as we read a book that is a child’s medical explanation of pregnancy and infancy. This book is wonderful. It’s actually the same book that was read to my brother in preparation for me (back in the late 70’s). Another book we have visits the way a big sister can help and play with their younger sibling. It is really quite cute and with it she’s starting to understand her role as well. When asked she’ll more often answer that she wants a baby boy. I think this is because most of her experience with a younger child is with our best friend’s son. Wow, she adores him! But either girl or boy, we’re all happy and excited about the new baby!

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Signs & Symptoms


With G, my mood was overall cheery with teary sentimental spells. Though I’m a pretty easy crier anyway, this was further exaggerated by pregnancy. Seeing children and parents or partners in loving relationships on TV or in real life would make me pause and appreciate the moment (while joyfully crying). Some of the other signs and symptoms I had came on in this approximate order:
·         Nausea – flu like feelings, pretty constant through 1st trimester
·         Heightened sensitivity to odors
·         Fatigue
·         A positive home pregnancy test
·         Frequent urination
·         Tender, swollen breasts
·         Shortness of breath - frequent
·         Constipation - significant
·         Abdominal bloating
·         Skin Changes and breakouts
·         Cravings
·         Stretch marks
·         Linea Nigra (darkening belly line)
·         Carpal Tunnel – left hand, weakness and sharp pain centered in thumb
·         Feet and ankle swelling

And this time – though we’re over the top excited about the new baby on the way, my mood is all over the place (largely due to my hypoglycemia, I think). I have already experienced many crying episodes some happy some sad. What seems to cycle is stress about not having enough time and energy right now. So far, the other signs and symptoms I’m experiencing happened in this sequence:
·         Abdominal bloating
·         Implantation bleeding
·         Fatigue
·         Cravings
·         Shortness of breath - occasional
·         A positive home pregnancy test
·         Tender, swollen breasts
·         Skin Changes and breakouts
·         Heightened sensitivity to odors
·         Nausea – comes on sudden
·         Frequent urination
·         Constipation – minor
·         Back aches/Back spasms
·         Low grade fever
·         Carpal Tunnel – (both) hands, weakness and pain/numbness from mid-palms to near elbows

Although these may look like lengthy lists of discomfort and change, I adore being pregnant! I love feeling the natural changes is my body, feeling the baby move, and feeling the love grow in our family. I recognize and am grateful for such a wonderful partner in life and partner in parenthood. My joy is in large part due to my wonderful and supportive husband. Thank you! I wouldn’t be here without you :)

“The carpal tunnel is a bony canal formed by the wrist bones on three sides and a ligament that runs across the wrist on the other. The swelling and fluid retention that's so common during pregnancy can increase the pressure in this relatively narrow and inflexible space, compressing the median nerve that runs through it. The median nerve gives sensation to the thumb and the index, middle, and half of the ring finger and is responsible for movement of a muscle at the base of the thumb. Pressure on this nerve is what causes the symptoms.” (Taken from: http://www.babycenter.com/0_carpal-tunnel-syndrome-during-pregnancy_234.bc)

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

First Trimester Appetite


With G, I had “morning sickness” though it lasted almost all day, I didn’t have it very intense. I didn’t actually get sick - just felt like I would upon the smell of food especially meat. With a mostly Verners (my favorite ginger ale) and cracker diet, I lost 9 pounds in the first trimester (which was not a concern of my Dr since I started off with some extra weight). When I did regain an appetite, I seemed to want simple food like mac n’ cheese or peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. One day while watching 30 Rock with the hubs, I craved a McFlurry after it was featured in the episode. I think it was almost 10 pm, but he went out and got me one J Another junk food splurge was Arby’s roast beef sandwiches doused in Arby Sauce. Oh my goodness – what terrible heartburn! And I did it to myself 2 or 3 times before finally giving it up. Though I enjoyed these indulgences I did focus on nutritious foods like homemade miso soup, fresh fruit and veggie salads, and lots of water.  A little side note, I think I started wearing maternity clothes around 13 weeks because I was really excited to, it was a plus that they were comfortable.

This time I am starting out with a healthy weight and a decent appetite. I’ve fluctuated a few pounds throughout the first trimester. There seems to be no consistency with the symptoms this time around. Instead of the standard morning sickness, my hypoglycemia has been amplified. This leaves me with sporadic yet sudden episodes of nausea, dizziness, fatigue, tingles, blurred vision, the shakes, weakness, ravenous hunger, headaches, moodiness and/or anxiety. It’s been a little tricky to deal with. It is very important for me to eat every 2-3 hours and minimize simple sugars. By focusing on this I not only reduced the frequency of these episodes, I reduced the constant heartburn I was experiencing during the early weeks (I was really surprised how bad water even hurt!).  Though I am experiencing protein aversion again, I try to get some in. I found that plain Greek yogurt, beans, and nut spreads (like almond or peanut butter) to be the easiest for me. After my initial craving for caviar with crackers (before I knew I was preggers) my cravings seem to shift toward fats. I want to add butter or cheese to things. I am trying to keep this under control J  Now when it comes to drinking, my non-pregnant self drinks between ½ to 1 gallon (or 16 cups) of water a day, but I’ve been lucky to manage 5-6 cups a day now – Yikes! So, I now drink some juice, decaf tea, spring/carbonated water and an occasional Verners or Root Beer to get enough liquids.  A little side note, I started wearing maternity clothes as soon as my first pregnancy test came back positive (even before my Dr appt) because I needed to from belly bloating. Of course I was really excited to have a reason to wear my stretchy paneled pants too!

First Sonogram


If my memory serves me, we had our initial Dr appointment for G around 10+ weeks, so her first sonogram showed a little peanut baby J We didn’t have to wait very long to share our news – I believe we started to spread the word to our parents and siblings between 11-12 weeks.  Shortly after, we became public with the news.

This time around, it ended up that we took the pregnancy test (actually 3 tests) around 6 weeks and had my first Dr appt around 8+ weeks. We thought we were further along, but the sonogram tech corrected us and let us know we are due July 15, 2012. So this first sonogram was the earliest I’ve ever seen.  It looked like an x-ray of my stomach showing a swallowed wedding ring (the “ring” was really the yolk sac and the “gem” was the baby). Even though we were pretty early in the game, we were able to hear the heartbeat – what a joy! Finding out so early tested our resolve to keep quite; it didn’t last long. We shared with our parents and siblings around 9 weeks and became public between 12-13 weeks. It’s really nice to not have to keep our happy news under wraps!

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Mission communication...

So, since I wanted to record a few notes on my pregnancy and I had a few friends and family interested in getting some updates, I decided to do this blog thing. The first time around when I was preggers with my daughter my husband led the communication charge. He is way more tech savvy then I, which is no surprise. But this time he is way busy, so I am trying to do this without bugging him. So far so good :)


*Photo of G in Grammy's new backyard 01/2012 :)